Are you absolutely worth it?
Truly worth it? Do you know your real value what an asset you are as a fabulous human being?
As I work with many women and have done for a number of years, I notice there is a common thread to the challenges that they face.
Are you absolutely worth it? Are you sure?
I ask them if they believe they are absolutely worth it, they often pause before responding!
Often my client will approach me with issues around self esteem, self worth not being good enough and confidence. She tells me her story of how someone else did or said something to her that effected how she felt about herself.
But that’s the thing……. IT IS JUST A STORY.
The story of:
Recognise that non of it true for you, that’s why its causing you to feel wrong now! Its usually old stuff, others stuff that we were told as children and we took those words as truth never questioning their validity, we just allowed them to affect us and how we showed up in the World.
Remember you are absolutely always worth it!
As adults we have to recognise the gap, acknowledge its changed and move away from the energy of what is no longer true for us with regard to the issue that created the believe of not being good enough.
ARE you absolutely worth it!- You bet you are!
Nobody or no thing outside of you can MAKE you feel less than unless you choose to accept their opinions and judgements. You are always free to either reject or take on board their harsh words or actions.
In business the lack of belief in being absolutely worth it, often results in discounting, price cutting or not charging adequately in the first instance. Fear lack of self esteem, lack of belief in your product, service or ability to deliver it maybe?
Other’s energy can deeply affect how you view yourself if you allow any of the following to get in the way:
Reliance of others approval
Self care starts with you -Remember – you are absolutely worth it!
Know and honour your boundaries, never allow others to step over those boundaries. Adopt an attitude of putting you first, ensure your needs are met, you are filled up and energised, then you can help and serve others.
You are absolutely worth it! Being your own best asset
Self worth, self esteem and knowing on a profound level that you are absolutely good enough starts and ends with you doing the inner work. Removing resistance, negative thoughts, beliefs and patterns that keep occuring in your life.
“Confidence makes you sexy.” – Queen Latifah
It is a fairly easy task to undertake once you know where to start. Find the root story that started it may not be so easy. Often the reasons are unconscious for you and you will need someone else to help you identify that deep routed unknown cause.
Feeling less than in one area of your life may actually relate to something that happened elsewhere in your life.
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” “Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it. ” “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.”
If you would like to dig a little deeper on this matter of ‘getting’ that you are absolutely good enough no matter who you are, where you are, how you look, how affluent you are right now. Lets talk!
I offer Are You Absolutely Worth It Sessions to help you to release the energy that is creating this low self worth story. lets shift it and change the ending to happy one instead.lets make sure you know exactly how you are absolutely worth it!
So Are you absolutely worth it? – absolutely you are!
Jacqui Tillyard is The Soul Led Speaker Mentor and a Professional Speaker/Celebrant
She helps conscious entrepreneurs to energetically align and communicate their soul led purposeful messages online and from the stage. She helps them create impact to connect with their audiences confidently and credibly.
Jacqui Offers Private VIP Mentoring , Online Training and Guest Expert Trainings.